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It won’t take long for you to be disappointed in marriage. It won’t take long for your dreams to be dashed. The reality is that you can’t escape the brokenness of this world. You won’t be able to avoid the sin of your spouse.
The Bible teaches that we all bring something destructive into our relationships – sin. But as Paul David Tripp explains, we buy into the delusion that our biggest problem is outside of us. We blame our spouse. We blame our circumstances. We rarely take seriously the nature of our own sin.
Unlike other marriage conferences that only diagnose horizontal problems, What Did You Expect? fights a much deeper war over the worship of our heart. It’s only when we worship God as Creator, Sovereign and Savior that we will ever love as we should.
What Did You Expect? challenges you to look into the mirror of God’s Word and see yourself with clarity. Maybe it’s you. Maybe you love yourself more than your spouse. Maybe you love your little kingdom more than God’s big Kingdom. When you reach that level of honesty, you’re at the edge of real good things for your marriage.
Start working on a marriage of unity, understanding, and love.
NOTE: This Conference Video does not track chapter-by-chapter with the What Did You Expect? book. It is an excellent supplemental resource, but both the book and the Conference Video can be used as stand-alone resources.
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"Noel and I listened to most of this book driving in the car! Wise words. Authentic experience. Provocative application. Turned a long trip into a fruitful two-person marriage seminar."
- John Piper, Desiring God Ministries
"When Paul Tripp teaches, preaches, or writes he does so through the lens of the gospel. In What Did You Expect?, Paul faithfully and brilliantly lets the gospel bear its weight on the messiness and beauty of marriage. I, personally, found the book to be helpful, and we use it extensively at The Village."
- Matt Chandler, Lead Pastor, The Village Church; author, The Explicit Gospel
"The reason What Did You Expect? is so powerful is not because Paul Tripp is a marriage expert with tips and tricks to fix your problems, it's because his teaching is drenched in the gospel and the Word of God. This honest book will help you see yourself and your spouse in a new light as it shows you who Jesus is and how to connect his redeeming grace to the daily realities of your marriage. Singles and engaged couples will benefit from it, too."
- Joshua Harris, Senior Pastor, Covenant Life Church; author, Dug Down Deep
"Paul Tripp understands, like few others, how grace alone can transform your marriage. And when grace reigns in a relationship, scorekeeping comes to an end and we become free from the slavish burden of having to fix one another. If you're going to read one book on marriage, read this one."
- Tullian Tchividjian,, Pastor, Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church; author, Jesus + Nothing = Everything
"What I've come to expect from Paul Tripp is consistently deep, transparent, biblical, wise, practical, gospel-driven counsel. Rather than muddying the water with self-focused strategies designed to meet our ever-multiplying needs, Paul, as the seasoned soul-physician he is, correctly diagnoses our problems and provides the cure—humble faith in Jesus Christ. I wasn't disappointed. You won't be either."
- Elyse Fitzpatrick, counselor; speaker; author, Give Them Grace
This conference video was recorded live and includes a free and reproducible Leader's Guide and Discussion Guide. You can make unlimited copies of these PDF files and use this curriculum for a small group, Sunday School class or church event of any size, but you are not permitted to duplicate the video files in any way.
3 hours, 58 minutes. The conference is broken up into ten 25-minute sessions.
This conference is available as ten (10) .mp4 video files.
After your purchase, you will be directed to a Dropbox folder containing the individual video sessions. These .mp4 video files can be downloaded and saved to your PC or Mac computer. You can then manually transfer these .mp4 video files between devices or computers that you own. For more information, visit www.paultripp.com/downloads.
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