I don’t know who you are, and I don’t know what your experience with marriage has been like.
Maybe you grew up in a healthy home with parents who lived in a healthy marriage. Maybe your experience was the opposite - maybe your parents’ marriage was plagued by selfish decisions, and you suffered the consequences.
Or, maybe you never had two parents and didn’t experience what a marriage was like at all.
Maybe you’re single, engaged, happily married, angrily married, divorced, widowed, or...